Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Happy Belated Independence Day!!

Happy Late Independence Day, from a Dependent!
As a dependent, I have had the best experiences in my life. Three and a half years in Japan, and countless other Military Related adventures. Many times, it's not adventurous, it's hard, like walking through frozen mud, uphill. I am thankful for our freedom, and the men and women who have sacrified and are still sacrificing everything they have for us.

We had the privilege to attend my brother-in-law's Airman Leadership Graduation last week. It was amazing, and reminded me of so much that I forget, with Nathan now being a Reservist. The ceremony was beautiful, the amount of work that went into the event to make it enjoyable for us was tremendous.

My favorite part of the event, other than the graduation itself, was the POW-MIA Table:

As you entered the dining area, you may have noticed a special table , raised to call your attention to its purpose. It’s reserved to honor our missing comrades in arms.

Set for five, the empty places represent Americans still missing from each of the five services -- Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force and Coast Guard. This Honors Ceremony symbolizes that they are with us, here in spirit.

Please remain seated, and join me in a moment of silent prayer, as the Honor Guard places the five service hat on the table.

I would like to explain the meaning of the items on this special table.

The table is round -- to show our everlasting concern for our missing.

Remember

The tablecloth is white -- symbolizing the purity of their intentions to respond to their country’s call to duty.

Remember

The lone candle symbolizes the frailty of a prisoner, alone trying to stand up against his oppressors.

Remember

The single red rose, displayed in a vase, reminds us of the life of each of the missing, as well as the loved ones and friends who keep the faith, awaiting answers.

Remember

The yellow ribbon tied to the vase, is a symbol of our continued determination to account for our missing.

Remember

A slice of lemon on the bread plate is to remind us of the bitter fate of those captured and missing in a foreign land.

Remember

A pinch of salt symbolizes the tears endured by those missing and their families who seek answers.

Remember

The Bible represents the strength gained through faith to sustain those lost from our country, founded as one nation under God.

Remember

The glass is inverted – they cannot toast with us this night.

Remember

The chairs, the chairs are empty -- they are still missing.

Remember



I'm not much of a crier, but this pierced my heart as I watched them set the table.

On a lighter note, I got to enjoy the company of my Bros-in-Law's girlfriends, Heather and Cristina, Bros and Parents-in-Law, Grandparents, and Aunt. A huge turnout! We had a great night, and sat around sipping sweet beverages and snacking on appetizers at Old Chicago following the graduation.



(Anthony is the one in the Middle)

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